"You can't take a picture of this. It's already gone."
Monday, June 16, 2014
wrote this on may 3rd, forgot to post it. not the worst
Here are the secrets of life which is embarrassingly enough a reference to a song i loved what feels like a millions years ago and played over and over and over again the secrets of my life feel pretty dumb
but go outside once in a while because fresh air is something you forget you need when you cloister yourself occasionally get fresh air.
it’s okay to medicate if you are hurting. it’s okay to call a doctor or ask for help don’t be afraid to keep trying to look for a good therapist (I’m still working on that one)
Be as kind as you can to the people around you but it’s more important to have your boundaries and humanity respected that to be kind your safety matters over their comfort if I could tell myself that for the last 15 years maybe my life would be different, better.
support your friends stay in contact keep a sense of humor and it is okay to not like things to call people out on things to ask the dumb questions what does that mean? why do you think that is funny?
Ask questions keep asking questions to your doctors and the pharmacists and the churches and your parents and anyone who will speak to you like you are important and you are so important
snuggle with cats and dogs drink lots of water don’t ever let anyone tell you what you can and can’t do with your own body.